Healthy anger : how to help children and teens manage their anger /

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Author / Creator:Golden, Bernard.
Imprint:Oxford ; New York : Oxford University Press, 2003.
Description:1 online resource (ix, 325 pages) : illustrations
Language:English
Series:OUP E-Books.
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Format: E-Resource Book
URL for this record:http://pi.lib.uchicago.edu/1001/cat/bib/11131265
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ISBN:0195184262
9780195184266
9780195156577
0195156579
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9781602567832
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9781280502538
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Digital file characteristics:data file
Notes:Includes bibliographical references (pages 311-312) and index.
English.
Print version record.
Summary:Whether dealing with the tantrums of a demanding two-year-old, or the hostile, rejecting rage of a distraught teenager seeking greater independence, dealing with a child's anger is one of the most frustrating and challenging tasks faced by a parent. While some children learn constructive strategies to manage anger, many learn ineffective ways that may lead to more severe emotional and behavioural difficulties, such as under achievement, depression, interpersonal conflict, and, in extreme cases, even violence. In "Healthy Anger", psychologists and anger expert Dr Bernard Golden helps us understand how children experience and express anger and how parents can help them to manage this complex and charged emotion. Rather than just examining the child's disruptive behaviour, Golden focuses on parent-child interaction, teaching parents constructive ways to respond to the whole child. Anger, Golden explains, is a natural emotion that is distinct from behaviour that is aggressive. He emphasizes that anger does not occur in isolation, but rather in the context of individual needs, attitudes, perceptions and emotions.; Golden helps parents work with their children to identify the causes of their anger, and then to implement strategies for coping in a healthy way. He gives parents constructive guidance for helping to understand "child logic", talking about anger and forgiveness, responding to escalating anger, rewarding good behaviours, and recognizing those children and teens who need professional help. Throughout the book, Golden includes clear, step-by-step instructions for exercises and tasks that will build coping strategies and build problem-solving skills for managing and channeling anger in healthy ways. "Healthy Anger" is an accessible and comprehensive guide for parents, teachers, and clinicians who work with children and teens
Other form:Print version: Golden, Bernard. Healthy anger. Oxford ; New York : Oxford University Press, 2003 0195156579
Table of Contents:
  • Acknowledgements
  • Introduction
  • I. Understanding and Recognizing Anger in Children and Teens
  • 1. The Key Component for Anger Management: Your Relationship with Your Child
  • 2. Guiding Principles of Healthy Anger
  • 3. The Adverse Effects of Anger
  • 4. A Comprehensive View of Anger
  • 5. How Children and Teens Express Anger
  • II. How to Apply the Model of Anger with Your Child or Teen
  • 6. General Guidelines for Using the Model of Anger
  • 7. Identifying Emotions Associated with Anger
  • 8. Identifying and Confronting Self-Talk Based on "child Logic"
  • 9. What Does Your Child Really Want or Need?
  • 10. Making Sense of Anger in the World Around Us
  • 11. Relaxation: a Primary Task in Managing Anger
  • 12. I Need to Think About It
  • 13. Okay, I'm Ready to Talk About It
  • 14. Acceptance and Forgiveness
  • III. Special Considerations
  • 15. Rewarding Behaviors
  • 16. Responding to Escalating Anger
  • 17. Anger, Hostility, and Aggression: the Need for Special Support
  • Conclusion
  • Notes
  • Resources
  • Movies
  • Publications
  • Bibliography
  • Index