Behaving badly : aversive behaviors in interpersonal relationships /

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Edition:1st ed.
Imprint:Washington, D.C. : American Psychological Association, 2001.
Description:1 online resource (xiii, 333 pages)
Language:English
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Format: E-Resource Book
URL for this record:http://pi.lib.uchicago.edu/1001/cat/bib/11133740
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Other authors / contributors:Kowalski, Robin M.
American Psychological Association.
ISBN:1557987165
9781557987167
1557987165
Notes:Includes bibliographical references and indexes.
English.
Made available through: American Psychological Association's PsyBooks Collection.
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Summary:Examines the dark side of relating, an inevitable part of interacting with others. How is it that we need others so much, indeed rely on them for our survival and well-being, yet often find it so difficult to maintain satisfying relationships? How can the loved one who raises your spirits by leaving flowers for you one day be the same individual who the next day acts like an insensitive jerk? Relationships provide us with meaning and psychological well-being, but are the source of many, perhaps most, of life's greatest frustrations. Some the most commonly experienced aversive phenomena are explored in this book, including teasing, swearing, gossip, and betrayal. Rich in research and vivid examples, the chapters of this volume explore these behaviors through the eyes of both victims and perpetrators, often revealing the hidden benefits of aversive behavior. (PsycINFO Database Record (c) 2004 APA, all rights reserved).
Other form:Behaving badly (print)
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A collection of essays by researchers of aversive behavior, this is not a book for lay people or beginners. All contributors support their discussion with extensive data, some of it the result of original work. Several authors call attention to the lack of research on aversive behavior. The chapter introductions and summaries are good, as are introductory and closing chapters by the editor (Western Carolina Univ.). The section titles are not helpful: for example, a section headed "Hurting Others" includes only scant discussion of the hurtful person and focuses on the victim's feelings and how to categorize them. Developmental data is presented accurately, but data concerning aversive behaviors are so sparse that some links the authors attempted were quite loose (ref., Katz and Joiner's general discussion of depression and aversive behavior is strong, but their discussion of the relationship between attachment and aversive behavior is tenuous at best). Several authors emphasize t he functional nature of aversive behavior; this possibility of both positive and negative valence is very interesting and deserves future research. Graduate students, researchers, faculty, and clinicians. S. K. Hall University of Houston--Clear Lake

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