Stop signs : recognizing, avoiding, and escaping abusive relationships /

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Author / Creator:Fairweather, Lynn, 1974-
Imprint:Berkeley, Calif. : Seal Press : Distributed by Publishers Group West, c2012.
Description:345 p. : ill. ; 21 cm.
Language:English
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Format: Print Book
URL for this record:http://pi.lib.uchicago.edu/1001/cat/bib/8786395
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ISBN:9781580053877
1580053874
Notes:Includes bibliographical references and index.
Summary:"Educational and empowering, Stop Signs exposes the discernable attributes, tactics, and deterrents of abusers, arming women with the tools they need to choose a safe and loving partner. In the first section, Fairweather familiarizes readers with the topic of intimate partner violence and explains how to develop the combination of self-esteem, preparation, and assertive awareness that can protect women from involvement with abusive individuals; in the second section, she explores the minds of abusers, explaining what visible signs of danger are present in their attitudes and actions; and in the last section, she provides women with effective strategies for safe extraction should they find themselves involved with an abuser."--from publisher's description
Table of Contents:
  • It will never happen to me : intimate partner abuse in America
  • Be informed : recognizing all types and patterns of abuse
  • Getting whole : you are your best defense against abuse
  • Forewarned is forearmed : how abusers test, prime, and ensnare their victims
  • Turning the tables : time to test your new partner
  • The devil you know : risk factors by characteristic
  • Clear and present danger : risk factors by behavior/method of abuse
  • But he can change, right? knowing when and how to make self-protective decisions
  • Ending a violent relationship : the pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness
  • Building your cavalry : getting help from police, courts, and victim services
  • Strengthen your alliances : finding support within the community
  • Target hardening : how to fortify your defenses after escape
  • Is it over? what do i do now?.